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Every marriage counselfe who walk through the door of my riage on planet Earth. The multiply their problems on a calculator and count they are blessing on their fingers. Married used to be a contract. Now many regard it has a ninety-day option.
One man said, ''I've be unlocking in both my marriage. My first wife left me, and my second wife won't. Marriage is the art of two incompatible people learning to life compatibly.
I I heard an illustration depicoting the degeneration of the romance ness with the common cold during 7 years of their marriage. He responded as follow:
The first year the husband says, Sugar Dumpling, I am really worried about my baby girl. You have a bad sniffle, and there's are not telling about these things with all the strep going around. I am putting you in the hospital this afternoon for a general checkup and a good rest. I know the all arrange with the floor superintendent.''
The second year of the marriage code they had man says listing darling I don't like the sound of that cound, and I just called Dr. Miller to rush over here. Now you go to bed like a good girl just for me.''
The third year of the marriage cold, the husband said this: ''maybe you better lie down, honey. Nothing like a little rest when you feel lousy. I'll bring you something. Do we have any canned soup?" Notice the degeneration?
The fourth year of the marriage cold, the husband says to his wife now look there be Sensible. After you have fed the kids, done the dishes, and mopped the floors. You better lie down.''
The fifth year of the marriage cold, the husband says, why don't you take a couple of aspirin?"
The 6th year of the married cold, the husband says to the wife I have wish you would just gargle or something instead of sitting around barking like a seal or day.''
The husband says on the seventh year of the marry cold, for romance Factor is gone now it is a matter of survival, and his and this is not a reality TV show it is life!
Marriage is like a computer. You get out it but you put into it. Trash in·, Trash out. If there is no investment of yourself of your emotion of your heart, you will receive nothing in return.
When I was eight and earning my money by picking Conton on the farm or a man who attend my father's church, that family of seven and all the head hands got their drinking water out of air well that functioned with a mineral pump. Before you couldn't get water out of the well, you had to pour water down the shaft to wet the leather that created the suction sufficient to bring fresh cool water to the top. If you put no water down the world, you could bump the handle until you have blisters, and there would be no water.
No water in, No water out.
Marriage is the same. No love in, No love out.
No tender no communication in, no tender no communication out. If you nurture you are married it will be your oasis. If you neglect it, it will became your Sahara Desert.
In this chapter, I will share some composite from true life stories of people who have work into my office over the years with marital problem that were colossal in nature. I said this living testimonies of unpeakable suffering with your two show you that you can recover if you are willing to save your marriage. The names have been changed but the facts are absolutely true. You will see yourself in some of this relationships.
Writing By Ghanansemfie24@gmail.com
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